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Commentary & Lifestyle

Yes, leggings are a problem

4/5/2019

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Leggings seem to be a hot topic right now. Ever since a mother wrote an open letter to the student newspaper at Notre Dame critiquing leggings, women have been choosing a side and digging their heels in. Most seem to defend them.

Well, here’s another opinion to add to the mix, and this time by a 25-year-old woman and not a mother of teen boys: I think leggings are inappropriate.

I used to feel differently. Actually, let me rephrase that: I used to want to feel differently. I wanted to be convinced that what I wore was fine, even as I knew that I looked good in leggings and that I was choosing to attract attention to myself in a way that was distracting. But even when I could feel that I was dressing inappropriately, I used the same arguments every other woman has made regarding them. I didn’t want to acknowledge what I already knew: that there's no excuse for wearing leggings outside of the gym, and maybe even at the gym you should throw a pair of shorts over the top.

Now, before I continue, I want to make a couple of things clear. By leggings, I mean all leggings. The argument against too small or sheer leggings doesn't really seem relevant to me, because no woman I know would purposefully wear a pair of leggings that are see-through outside of her home. And by wearing leggings, I mean wearing them without a long sweater or blouse over the top to cover your bum. If you're doing that, that's a bit of a different scenario.

There are two reasons generally cited for why leggings are worn: one, they’re fashionable, and two, they’re comfortable.

As a fashion blogger, I take real issue with reason number one. Leggings aren't fashion! They are meant for exercising. Clothing used to be something people took pride in - it makes me sad that dressing down has become the new norm. So why do women wear leggings to look fashionable? Because if you have a nice pair of leggings, they’re flattering. They pull you in, up, and make everything look better. They match pretty much everything. It's understandable why women want to wear them. 

But they’re not fashion. They’re athletic clothing. And if you’re going to call them a fashion item, then you’ll have to explain to me why leggings are any different than a tight, low-cut, high-hemmed, sexy dress. I know that I would never consider wearing something like that, but in my head, I used to think that leggings were a different ball game. Maybe because they didn't actually show any skin, I could tell myself that they were more modest. 

But I’ve talked to many men about this very topic, and they’ve all told me that leggings are distracting. It’s not an insult to them that they know their own nature. Men are visual creatures. And the men who voice this are not weak – they’re the men who want to be good, who want to view women as more than their bodies. I know those are the kind of men I'd like to be surrounded with. Of course, that's not to say that a man should immediately treat you as less than a person if you're wearing something like leggings. But it's also not realistic to say that men won't be drawn to the physical when faced with it. 

At this point, the conversation usually shifts: we say that leggings are not about fashion, they’re about comfort. But this really gets me. Leggings are comfortable – but no more comfortable than a pair of sweatpants. So there’s no reason for any woman to wear them for comfort’s sake…unless you’re actually wearing them as a fashion item. So we end up back where we started. 

The mother who wrote the letter on this topic wasn’t wrong. She saw three young women at church, at Mass, wearing leggings and crop tops. A place of worship is not a place to either dress unthinkingly or dress with the implicit purpose of drawing attention to the physical. We dress nicely in synagogues and churches to express respect for God, not to show off what our bodies look like. And at this point in my life, I don't really believe that women don’t know that wearing leggings is distracting. If you didn't know before, maybe you'll believe it after reading this. And every time you put on leggings, you’ll have a choice to make.

Do you agree? Let me know in the comments!
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134 Comments
A.
4/5/2019 03:03:55 pm

Great article! Very spot on. I believe it's about respect as well. I am usually shunned for having the same opinion on leggings, so it's refreshing to hear someone else say this.

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Classically Abby
4/6/2019 09:15:47 pm

I'm glad you feel the same way! I know it's not a popular opinion to say that we should try and be more mindful about the way we dress, but I think it's good to keep in mind 😊

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Jessica
6/4/2020 03:06:30 am

I don't agree because, leggings are meant to be worn as it is. To be comfortable. Yoga pants are for the gym. I myself is a worship of the One an All Mighty God. God created women as it is. The is no need to sexualize women's. If men are distracted, they should read the Bible. But God forbid, please don't wear cloths that show your bottom. Basically, the parts wear a bathing suit covers. I conclusion, leggings are perfectly fine. It's like when you show your shoulders to someone. Some people may think that as inappropriate. Again, it's fine. Bye. And Pray to God.

Ava
3/3/2021 10:09:50 am

I have to admit, I completely disagree with this article. As someone who has struggled with body dysmorphia(and still is) leggings where an escape to fell confident about my body. I am extremely skinny and no matter what I do I cant gain wait and if I do it never appears in my body. I feel uncomfortable in sweatpants and jeans because they never fit my legs the right way and make my legs appear more skinny then they actually are. By wearing leggings and tighter shirts I feel confident going out in public and feel no shame in the clothes that I choose to wear. I have actually had people publicly shame me for wearing leggings and I feel that you shouldn't make assumptions for everybody. You never know someone's story and women shouldn't have to pay for men's attention problems in schools.

Josh
3/14/2021 12:02:31 am

Women dont know men atall. There is not a single more attractive thing a girl could wear than pantyhose or tights. But women have stopped caring what men like apparently. So we settle for legging s the next best thing. Women just want to be more like men with cowboy boots and t shirts and jeans. Unless you trying to atttact a gay guy just stop already.

Edward
12/4/2019 11:58:45 am

I’m sorry you feel this way about leggings but it’s your opinion and you are absolutely entitled to it but my husband wears leggings and there women’s leggings at that while we were out and about shopping or going to the movies he has several commits about how nice they look on him

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Dave
7/13/2020 02:39:49 pm

If you have on leggings and don’t cover your bottom atleast with some kind of longer shirt it says a lot to a man..most decent women wouldn’t like the idea of walking around exposed to men.lets face it leggings really leave nothing to the imagination!!

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Bee
11/3/2020 09:28:15 am

And what of it? If I want to leave nothing to the imagination, then Imma leave nothing to the imagination. And no, I won't cover my bottom. I have a fine ass and I know it.

Trying Not Too
2/20/2021 09:42:43 am

Bee, please do be careful. You do have a right. but remember we're living in a crazy world, there are people who are not mentally well and could get overly tempted by looking at your beautiful body. What if they decided to take it against your will? This could have happened to me and I don't have a beautiful body, but my actions tempted both male and female. This is not a game believe me. Many are watching you both male and female, some àre getting bothered more then others. Your shape is all they can think about, yes they are lusting after you and you don't need that type of attention. Save the wonderful gift that God has given you for that Good mans eyes and let it be his wonderful surprise.

Regards,
A man trying not to look

Sara
8/22/2020 12:10:07 am

More class less a**

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Candace
9/1/2020 09:03:56 pm

I honestly couldn't believe when I went out grocery shopping and saw all these girls wearing crop tops and leggings. I'm a female and I could not keep my eyes off them for some reason? It was exceedingly distracting, I can't imagine the four men out there that have to physically remove their eyes from these girls and distract themselves from looking at them. I do live in the country and I'm very isolated but I honestly was Blown Away Today by how many are these young girls are wearing the same thing. They might as well be naked. Just saying be careful girls I'm a retired police officer oh, and there is no bigger statement you're making than going out looking like that.

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Abby
9/5/2020 02:02:23 pm

Honey, I think you’re just gay.

sam
12/1/2020 12:24:32 pm

hunny, its called being gayyyyyy (its not bad to be either)

Karen Gibson link
10/21/2020 10:52:07 pm

I totally disagree with you! You can buy classy better made, thicker leggings with a nice pullover sweater or vest and look classy!!! If you wear thin, tight, five dollar leggings, you will look cheap! Even tight denim jeans look like cheap leggings and will show your butt! There's no difference, just color and material!

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T
12/3/2020 09:34:46 am

lol @ classy. I think you meant trashy. If you enjoy looking trashy then by all means go for it, lots of women like trashy men. Ya'll meant for each other. But don't dilute the meaning of the word by trying to bend it to what you wish it meant. That's not fair to trashy or classy folks.

Legging Wearer
11/26/2020 09:35:36 pm

Who actually cares. Why obsess over something that’s not your business? Does it get tiering to be this passive aggressive to people simpler living their loved and wearing what they want. If you feel you are immodest wearing leggings then go right ahead and put on your long sweater. But this shouldn’t shame other people for not agreeing with your lifestyle. I even saw an awful comment saying that a woman wearing legging is the equivalent of a man going out and wearing underwear. But this makes no sense, does this mean bathing suits are immodest? Men’s shorts? Women’s Shorts? What is the obsession with women being sexual beings that don’t know how to hide their body’s for the worth of a man or fear what a man will think. I think this article is tone-deaf and frankly not a good influence on young women.

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Sam
12/1/2020 12:25:37 pm

AMEN SISTER

Dave
1/31/2021 06:56:25 pm

I wouldn’t call it obsessing over something that’s none of our business.it’s simply saddening how the overall moral and conservative ways of women have decreased so dramatically.and this is overall blog on opinions on leggings and you can’t make a point besides why should someone else care.”it’s an opinion”..and you can trust when I say there are some women that agree and want to be valued by more than just there physical attributes being displayed..Walk in Walmart right now leggings on every isle -in my opinion it’s just as sleezy looking as men sagging with there butt all out

A
2/20/2021 09:59:46 am

Yes, bathing suits, tight jeans and dresses are immodest. So sad that many dont understand thier worth.

Josh
3/13/2021 11:55:09 pm

Sweatpants are unattractive on girls. Kind of like when a girl puts on a mans shirt and thinks shes cute but only reminds men of one of their guy friends. Girls need to face the truth that men only want to see attractive women and thats it. I have never flirted with a ugly girl before and never would. What really matters is whats on the inside is something only ugly people say. Truth hurts i can not lie.

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Ashlyn McFatridge
4/5/2019 03:57:10 pm

Wholeheartedly agree! I am in nursing school at a Christian college, and I am saddened by how many of my classmates wear leggings on a daily basis. Maybe someday this view will be more pervasive in the religious community.

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Classically Abby
4/6/2019 09:16:40 pm

I hope so too! Glad you feel the same way 😊

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Mike
6/25/2020 08:42:54 pm

We can only hope and pray!

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Josh
3/14/2021 12:06:39 am

Have fun being lonely if you dont know how to look good. Once in a while. Get with the times. This aint the 60s anymore grandma. If your married i feel deeply sorry for your man.

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?
4/15/2021 08:39:33 am

I hope thinking like this makes you feel better about yourself. It's obvious you somehow think you are superior because you choose not to wear leggings. I hope you gain some self-esteem and stop relying on putting other women down to get some confidence. Look up "pick-me girl". Because that's exactly what you are.

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Rachel
4/5/2019 09:42:31 pm

I agree that all women should consider what they wear and dress modestly, but I don't like to blame immodest dress on an article of clothing. We can pretty much find a way to get attention wearing almost anything. It's more of a character issue. We all need to think about what our motivation is for how we dress. Our outward appearance usually just reflects our inward thoughts.

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Classically Abby
4/6/2019 09:25:33 pm

I think that's a really good point. I also think it's important to be mindful of how we dress, not simply in intention but in our actions as well. I appreciate your thoughts, though! 😊

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Rico
7/13/2020 02:41:41 pm

I like this comment.

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Katrina
4/5/2019 10:17:40 pm

After having kids I fully embraced leggings. Loose skin and Jean's suck! Plus my skinny Jean's show just as much as my leggings, only my leggings are more slimming and comfortable. 🤷🏼‍♀️

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Classically Abby
4/6/2019 09:24:03 pm

Hey, if you can pull them off with a long sweater or top, I understand that! 😊

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Sam
12/1/2020 12:27:07 pm

heck, she could wear a crop top if she wanted. its not your place to judge her. BODY CONFIDENCE PEOPLE

Martin
4/6/2019 02:49:14 am

I absolutly agree, in quite surprised that anyone actually stands with the mother and i gotta say that you are absolutely rifht

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Ella Cutter
4/6/2019 09:42:40 am

“say that leggings are not about fashion, they’re about comfort. But this really gets me. Leggings are comfortable – but no more comfortable than a pair of sweatpants. So there’s no reason for any woman to wear them for comfort’s sake…unless you’re actually wearing them as a fashion item“

Leggings are comfortable. Leggings also make you look good without trying hard. What’s the issue if woman want to look good without styling an outfit for 20 mins?? Sweatpants are supposed to be worn when you’re cold inside your house, not going to a store because that just makes you look trashy let’s be real. Leggings are not just comfortable, but also make you look good. If looking good is fashion then why can’t leggings be fashion? Who says their for working out?

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Classically Abby
4/6/2019 09:22:46 pm

My point was in trying to understand, if leggings are a fashion item, why you would feel comfortable wearing them knowing that they're in many ways as revealing as something sexier that you may not wear for modesty purposes. I also understand that this is a topic that many women feel strongly about, so I just wanted to share my POV. 😊

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Levi
11/22/2019 03:51:58 pm

There are leggings made for fashion, as well: they're a bit thinner than athletic ones, but thicker than tights. I own several pair, myself, to be worn under dresses that are a bit shorter than I thought they would be when I ordered them online. I wear them under those, and in winter under jeans as an additional layer.

Also, as a dogwalker, lemme tellya, Jean's or other thick fabric is NOT comfortable in the hot summer. So, yeah, I often wear them with a longish tank. And if men happened to see me, he, so what, I'm sweaty and covered in dog hair and slobber, I doubt they're reading "sexy" from that! 😂

Matthew Duncan
10/1/2020 03:49:52 pm

Sweatpants are trashy but leggings that show off every curve and camel toe is somehow less trashy? Your logic is flawed.

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Anonymous
10/31/2020 10:44:33 am

Leggings are not fashion. It's the equivalent of a man putting on tity whities and walking into public. Very cringe worthy.

Josh
3/14/2021 12:09:12 am

Men like women in leggings. End of discussion.

Amanda Nelson
4/6/2019 10:16:27 am

You know me. I’m a leggings girl all the way and honestly have never gotten any extra attention wearing them so I’ve never felt a need to fight for or against the matter😉 ... I do believe you wrote a very eloquent and well thought out article though ♥️♥️

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Classically Abby
4/6/2019 09:20:07 pm

I do know and I respect that! I will say that I think it has less to the do with the way men treat you and more about being mindful of the feelings of men who don't want to look at you in a disrespectful way. But I'm glad you enjoyed the article in any case 😊

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Dave
7/13/2020 02:33:40 pm

Trust me you got extra attention whether you noticed it or not.

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GragonV
7/28/2020 08:22:39 am

True.
And I'm so tired with the oppinion of someone is 100% sure that he/she is not drawing attention/creating distraction so he/she can do whatever she/he wants in public. And also the blame on others who cannot help but being attracted /distracted by a certain action is also so lame.

Diana
4/6/2019 10:47:57 am

I agree. There are plenty of long tops that cover you up and do make leggings fine.

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Classically Abby
4/6/2019 09:17:21 pm

Yes, I do think that is a slightly different scenario.

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Sabrina
4/8/2019 11:07:27 am

I think leggings look lazy, because as you stated, they're workout wear. It makes sense to wear them and be revealing at the gym, because they are specifically for ease of movement without the weight and drag of sweatpants. But if you wear that out in public, then you look like you don't care, much like with sweatpants and pajama pants. If someone wears them because they don't care, more power to them, I guess, but they shouldn't say they want to look good to justify wearing leggings.
And I don't care how comfortable they are, no one should ever wear leggings to church, except under a skirt that's too short.

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Alexa
4/21/2019 10:30:24 am

I know the article you're referring to. I didn't have an issue with the woman's opinion, really, but more an issue of how some people responded to the article. Some people insisted that women wear leggings specifically to attract men and I completely disagree with this! Maybe some women do, but the women I know who wear leggings wear them for comfort, not to attract men. Anyway, I personally don't care what anyone wears or the reasons why they are wearing what they are wearing. I do agree though that leggings are a lazy way to dress, especially if you're going to church or any event where you should put at least a little bit of effort in dressing. However, I have to admit I also love leggings because of the comfort! As a personal thing, I get uncomfortable really quickly when it comes to certain clothes: if they're too tight, if the seams itch, if the fabric is scratchy...basically, I am really picky about fabric and comfort. It's a personal quirk. I do make sure to wear shirts that are long enough to cover my butt and crotch, though! I would feel self-conscious if I didn't, unless I was at the gym (but I still try to wear longish shirts there too).

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Elizabeth Dickson
11/22/2019 03:55:51 pm

THIS. It's such a tiresome trope that gets trotted out. Some days I literally could not care less about my looks. And, I'm sorry, if a man thinks disrespectfully of me based on what I'm wearing, he's gross and I don't want to know him. At all. He's obviously not worth my time or energy.

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Truth Man
3/27/2020 09:11:50 pm

Another ridiculous comment from someone who wants to dress like a slut but then takes offence if someone assumes she is... oops

Truth #2
4/22/2020 08:01:44 am

Seriously...And some girls wonder why they can't get a good man.

Dave
7/28/2020 08:59:51 am

Yes girl I know that’s right..life is too short to be running around worried about whether or not You’re looking less than lady like..but hey it’s all about perception .not caring how you look and how you are representing yourself are two different things though sweetie

Wren
9/5/2020 02:09:29 pm

I realize this is a conservative blog, but what if the girl is homoesexual? She sure isn’t doing it for guys. I think guys need to dress nicely or they’ll never get a lady. They need to wear something other than khakis or Nike shorts. I think it’s just as slutty as leggings. I mean they show their hairy calves. Their dick bulges out sometimes. What a whore.

Amanda Whithair
8/10/2019 12:12:39 am

I respect your opinion and can definately understand yours at the mothers viewpoint. I sometimes feel uncomfortable when people wear a piece of clothing that's revealing. Notably really short shorts on girls and thin leotard like shorts on men!
I loved her point on seeing people as people and not just bodies. I've always thought about that and now I know how to say it!

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Tom Thumb
10/4/2019 06:54:38 pm

Leggings are sexier than being naked. End of story.

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Mavreen Espinosa
10/7/2019 02:17:27 am

There's a thing called "dress appropriately". Respect the house of God and respect your workplace. I don't mind people wearing leggings anywhere else but not at work and especially the church. If you really love leggings that much then wear a sweater dress and boots or maybe something long and flowy and pair it with a blazer and heels.

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Bee
11/3/2020 08:03:02 am

Well... here's the thing. Not everyone believes in God. I don't and I'll wear whatever I want, thank you. If I wear leggings to work, then that's my choice. You don't get to decide what I wear. And if I wear that with a crop top- that's my choice. Not yours. So don't try to decide what other women wear. My body, My choice. Not yours

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sam
12/1/2020 12:37:36 pm

AMEN

Bea
10/7/2019 05:37:31 pm

It's always a sticky situation when we judge or criticize a person's choice of dress. We always want to feel and look good. It requires judgement on the part of the dresser to look professional, classy, respectful and appropriate. If my dress is distracting to others, male or female, in a decidedly negative way, then something's awry. Educate yourself re the image you want to portray and how to achieve it. It takes maturity, wisdom, and honouring yourself and how you want to present yourself to the world.

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David
12/9/2019 02:27:39 pm

I love leggings which are transparent. I own a self serve car wash. Very common to bend over when cleaning inside of a vehicle. Hundreds of women have given me the pleasure of viewing the most intimate details of their bodies, likely unaware of it.

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Kayla
12/15/2019 12:57:37 pm

wtf you pervert.... you should be fired! That is very disturbing and men like you are the reason women feel like they have to cover up!

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S--
3/5/2021 11:43:25 pm

Funny thing is, you actually liked what he said lol. No need to pretend not to. We already know.

Trith
6/25/2020 08:35:31 pm

Another reason why women shouldn't wear "leggings". Because of men like this. Unless these women want this sort of attention. If not then stop..: stop following our toxic culture and be discreet and beautiful.

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Betty
7/23/2020 03:21:31 pm

Yeah this was such a creepy thing to say and admit and you should be ashamed for looking. I also agree that girls + women should dress modestly and unfortunately nowadays you're looked down upon for having these views. I literally get nauseated when I'm out with my bf and I see women in short shorts exposing their butt cheeks or other revealing clothing and it makes me extremely uncomfortable because I'm so sick of having to worry about my bf looking at that with or without me present. I just don't understand why some women nowadays choose to dress this way. It's just distasteful, slutty, and inconsiderate. Makes me absolutely hate the summer for this reason because it's not your free card to dress indecently.

Susan
9/5/2020 02:13:29 pm

People should be held accountable for their actions. Should someone be set on fire because their clothes are flammable?

Bee
11/3/2020 09:31:49 am

No. Men need to be fucking respectful. I'll wear whatever I damn well please, because I am not dressing for you I am dressing for myself.

Laura E. ORiorden
12/27/2019 03:06:24 pm

I completely agree.

Ladies, you know what the men (ALL of them, not just the 'perverts') are thinking.
Stop it. Just stop it.

Teasing is not a way to control and assert your feminity.

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Writer
4/22/2020 07:57:49 am

Exactly!

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Jom
6/25/2020 08:36:39 pm

Amen! Thank you.

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Bee
11/3/2020 09:34:30 am

I am not dressing for any goddamn man. I am dressing for myself and the ladies. I am a gay woman and if a man decides to come up to me and look at me that way then he's gonna get a faceful of my girlfriend's fist.

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Sam
12/1/2020 12:43:56 pm

Yasssss you go girl. i am a gay woman as well, but im also not staring at people in leggings when i go out.

Dave
1/31/2021 07:09:57 pm

Well amen to that brother..

Sam
12/1/2020 12:39:42 pm

No thank you. I will wear whatever i fricken want. also, dont assume all women are straight. its called being gay hunny

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Jim
3/10/2020 05:31:31 am

I find leggings on women to be very attractive. If a woman is in decent shape and she's not covering up, guys are going to look. I also understand how comfortable leggings are as I wear them around the house. If I could, I'd wear them in public too so I get it. So to all women, if you don't want guys to look at your butt, wear a longer top. Some women want the attention though and it's obvious.

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Person
4/28/2020 11:51:58 am

Definitely but so do many men. Think about all the guys who do steroids for female attention

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Mr Truth
3/27/2020 09:19:01 pm

Sorry ladies but leggings and yoga pants are slutwear that accentuate your vag and butt in the sexiest way possible. Wake up and dress appropriately. Thank you.

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Marco
4/22/2020 07:54:14 am

Sometimes it needs to be said as you just said it Mr Truth. Leggings, are (worn uncovered) very revealing and indecent!

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Bee
11/3/2020 09:35:24 am

Uhh, no. I'll wear whatever I goddamn please. What I wear is none of your concern.

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sam
12/1/2020 12:45:29 pm

and why should u tell me what to wear??

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Marco
4/22/2020 07:51:55 am

Awesome write up! Thank you! Goes to show there are people who care :)

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Person
4/28/2020 11:51:01 am

I get it but at the same time it's peoples choice and theyre going to reflect their own values. No amount of blog articles is going to cause all of human civilization to reach ubiquity about what is appropriate or what standards they are going to live by. Learning to navigate the plurality of view points in the open market place of ideas is always going to be a healthier coping mechanism than hoping that when you wake up tomorrow the world has adapted in a way that will make you more comfortable. I respect your argument but I feel sometimes that these types of articles are preaching the choir

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Caroline Weis
5/25/2020 02:30:08 pm

You should definitely not wear leggings in a church, that's disrespectful. I tend to agree with you also that there is generally no reason to wear something that draws so much attention but then again, why would I care if men get distracted. That's not my problem! Plenty of men run around shirtless when it's hot, in the park but also elsewhere. Do they care about distracting women and that it might be inappropriate? Maybe they should, I'm divided on that, but as long as they don't women shouldn't care either. And in an ideal world they shouldn't have to care about distracting men for their safety.
I wonder what Karl Lagerfeld thought about wearing leggings outside... You know he said about jogging pants: "Jogging pants are a sign of defeat. You lost control of your life, so you bought some jogging pants."

Love, Caroline (from Germany)

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Bee
11/3/2020 09:36:16 am

I'll wear whatever I like to church, goddamn it

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Craig Martin
6/6/2020 10:07:15 am

You know I read your article and really it’s not for me to agree or disagree because it’s not my place it’s called freedom a society in which we live. Freedom of speech freedom of expression is a wonderful thing sometimes it’s colourful but again if we are going to be a society that’s lived our freedoms then people should wear what they want when they want except church that’s a different forum. If I see a woman wearing tights going for a walk with a baseball hat on I would admire her actually would inspire to be fit so you or I could look like that but that’s my in my mind opinion and I’m a man yes. If I saw a guy wearing compression tights and top going for a bike or jog I also would admire and would be inspired to get off my butt and go work out. I guess what I’m saying is in the proper environment wear what your soul tells you to wear if you feel good without judgement by others. This is where society is wrong 100% by feeling they have an opinion based on there thoughts. Everyone is different and has different opinions based on there own feelings or the way they we’re raised or had an issue in the past again we should all understand we are all different and should be entitled to do as we feel in any form of expression without judgment from others

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Dave
7/28/2020 08:41:33 am

Understand fully what you’re saying but there’s a times and place..as a man I wouldn’t go out to the store in tights revealing my penis print and bottom shape with women and kids everywhere..so as a woman I think it would be understanding that you are about to walk out in public around peoples husbands and children.im sure we would all walk around naked and comfortable if we could but that’s inappropriate right..so no let’s just wear a piece of material so thin and fitted to the shape of our body that we literally look naked but hey I have on clothing “per say”so I’m in the clear

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The piece she had made is so wonderful. She is so gifted to have that kind of talent. I also studied fashion designing before, but I have failed to finish it. I did not pursue it because I lack of interest, I wanted to have a title as a designer, but it is so hard to finish a piece. You have to dedicate an effort in time in making one. I hope that I can have the talent as same as yours. Keep it up!

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6/15/2020 09:15:38 pm

I am a 57 year old bodybuilder with an amazing body. I love leggings. All this talk about when you should wear leggings is stupid. If your Christian, you are not supposed to judge.

do you judge over-weight people for wearing clothing that is too tight. Who are you to judge anyone. If your man wants to wear leggings what is the problem.

Blue Jean where originally designed for men, boy shorts, boxer underwear, smoking, drinking, soldiering, boycotts and construction working the same.

Men created and manufactured lipstick, eye shadow, false, weight supplement, exercise, cars, plans, boats, coats, housing and fashion. Get over yourself.

We are Alpha men and don't need humans like you to telling us what we should wear.

Stop your crying and jump onboard the world of change.
I look hot in my leggings and i'm not going to stop wearing them because someone bit into a sour apple.

I love the fact that woman can wear men's clothing and wear it well. So - Just have a coke and a small and relax.

It's time men and woman are Free to express their inner self. I you want to "die on that sword" divorce him. I'm sure there are other woman out there who would love to take your place.

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Dave
7/28/2020 08:50:38 am

Well buddy I think you more or less proved the point of the article when you said “I think I look hot in leggings”..means you know what you see so you should know what everyone else sees ..the worlds been leaning and overselling sex and nudeness for years..would we jumping on board the world of change or indirect persuasion..we could all probably agree the world is getting more and more immoral anywho so I guess it makes sense

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Bee
11/3/2020 09:37:35 am

EXACTLY. I look good in my leggings and if people don't like it, they can screw off.

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No you don't, you just think you do. 😭😭😭😭 ITS just all in your head. Please put some clothes on PLEASE

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I get it but at the same time it's peoples choice and theyre going to reflect their own values. No amount of blog articles is going to cause all of human civilization to reach ubiquity about what is appropriate or what standards they are going to live by. Learning to navigate the plurality of view points in the open market place of ideas is always going to be a healthier coping mechanism than hoping that when you wake up tomorrow the world has adapted in a way that will make you more comfortable. I respect your argument but I feel sometimes that these types of articles are preaching the choir

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2/20/2021 01:33:47 pm

One must stand for something or fall for everything.

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Jamie Wilkins
8/8/2020 07:38:03 pm

The misogyny in this is outstanding. Can't believe I just read that. I bet you think that a women getting raped is her fault.

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8/12/2020 10:45:34 pm

I know right?! I came across this blog searching for a specific pair of leggings I saw on instagram and I’m absolutely shocked by both the blog and the comments! People are insane.

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Hmm?
2/20/2021 01:39:31 pm

Best be careful God might be telling you both something.. humans do go crazy in the mind at times when the devil enters in. Don't mock, stay safe, cover up. Don't be wise in your own eyes. You don't want to attract a man that is only attracted to your physical the most. Surprise him.

?
4/15/2021 08:13:47 am

Why are you assuming that I dress a certain way to attract men? Do men wear t-shirts and basketball shorts to attract women? Not every woman is attracted to men in the first place.

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8/12/2020 10:45:05 pm

I am a woman who wears leggings often, for many different reasons, and I can assure you that until I came across this blog just now, it has never once crossed my mind what anyone—male or female—might have been thinking about me in my leggings. This is literally a non-issue. Obviously, I wouldn’t deliberately choose to wear leggings that are see-through; however, if you can’t seem to think about anything other than ass and vagina even when a woman is wearing appropriately opaque leggings, I’m sorry to say the problem is YOU—not the woman, and not her leggings. Maybe you need to lock yourself in the bathroom and have a good long wank BEFORE you leave the house in the morning, so you can control yourself when out in public? Give it a try. And while you’re at it, can you please stop staring at women’s crotches? Apparently no one ever told y’all that it’s extremely rude and frankly quite perverted to do that. Thanks!

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Dave
8/12/2020 10:54:03 pm

It’s called being mindful ..so you never considered you outward appearance..always going to be creeps out here right?..so just keep giving them something to go lock themself in the bathroom and wank off to..face it legging/stockings and all of that were once considered underwear!!!!but hey the world is changing and so will morals I guess..women use to be so discreet and valued themself differently ..you are what you advertise!!

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Legging wearer
11/26/2020 09:40:56 pm

You make some great point in here Dave. What do you wear by the way? Do you wear slacks with a suit with bowler hat and specs? Or is it just full medieval attire for a ball with leggings and heels? Or maybe Roman togas? Oh wait I know maybe you like dressing like our founding fathers heels, makeup, a suit and nice white wig since you seem like a man of high regard. Frankly either of these I’ll find a very hard time not look at how sexual you look.

Dave
1/31/2021 07:26:13 pm

My friend this is just my personal opinion on leggings.seems like you have more of an opinion of me for some reason..daddy issues by chance??do you not like men saying being aware of your appearance as a woman?you seem to be a woman of very low regard and moral.I bet as woman all you have to offer is what’s in those leggings

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2/20/2021 01:51:55 pm

Wow, so once enlightened by concerned women and men know how this effects young boys and men, you would still choose to wear such a garment? I guess being comfortable and your case is more important then how you are being viewed. It's all the mans problem. I guess your right.

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4/15/2021 08:19:16 am

Dude, wait, my 6-year-old sister wears legging I didn't know she was such a manipulative man-hater. I'm definitely going to put her in a pair of kid-sized sweatpants and go make her pray to the Lord lest any man feels lust for her.

S--
3/5/2021 11:53:44 pm

Lol the sarcasm in her comment too obvious. Women clearly love for men to stare at their crotches to show off their female form in order to manipulate men. Otherwise they wouldn't wear it at all lol!!!! Women actually think they're helping their case by being dishonest. Instead, now it's embarrassing for them because their lies are so blatantly obvious. Why not just tell the truth?

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I love your descriptions and photos. I think I would like to wear some of the hats. Corsets and hobble skirts, absolutely not. Some of the looser and flowing dresses, maybe.

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11/17/2020 07:26:09 am

Everyone should dress comfortably! It's your choice. I just don't like going out and having to give an anatomy lesson to my boys as to what that double bulge is! Of course I play it down with some jokes also, but there needs to be some compromise. I think even superman masks his bulge so the whole world doesn't have to see it. Especially if they're see through and they weren't before you put them on, that needs to be addressed.. I love all woman in all shapes and sizes, but we need compromise. I could wear a skin tight wicking shirt, but I understand my limits and I'm considerate for people around me!🤪🤙

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A
11/21/2020 07:40:29 pm

Absolutely fuck this blog. And fuck the jerkoffs posting that a woman can't just wear clothes that are comfortable without being called a slut. This whole thing is a shitshow fr. Leggings are just another piece of clothing. Imagine pegging every woman in leggings as a whore.... pretty pathetic thing to even worry about. Feel bad for conservatives worrying about everything except the things that matter

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Ann Marie
11/23/2020 08:53:52 am

Great piece, thank you! Leggings leave nothing to the imagination and are a supremely lazy choice of clothing. When I'm out in public, I am often the only woman NOT in some type of athleisure wear. What happened to "real" clothing with buttons and zippers or any sense of feminine modesty and style? What happened to any attempt at appropriate dress? I cringe EVERY TIME I'm in stores and am forced to see tight, transparent spandex stretched across obese rear ends. Everyone looks the same! Hair in a bun, tight leggings, t-shirt or tank top, and flip flops or better yet, soccer slides with socks. It's like a uniform anymore. This is definitely not a trend that elevates our culture. Ditch the leggings, ladies!

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4/15/2021 08:22:31 am

I'm so sorry ma'am, I've realized the terribleness of my actions. I'm going to go out and buy an authentic Victorian dress so I can wear some "real" clothing. While we're at it, why don't we go back to before women got the right to vote too?

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sam
12/1/2020 08:18:30 am

how dare women be confident in themselves and there bodies?!? i completely disagree. its a new world. women ARE more than bodies, i agree. BUT we should let them do as they choose with them and not shun those who wear leggings

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12/3/2020 09:56:48 am

Men should start wearing leggings everywhere, all the time. Then jeer and chide the women who don't want to see Everything. All. The. Time.

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1/4/2021 12:14:09 am

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2/1/2021 07:12:31 am

Ok. I was brought back here by a fucking notification, and i wanted to remind everyone. women will wear what they goddamn please. no matter what people like this stuck up bitch say, leggings do not make you a slut. leggings and clothes like it are not the cause of rape. it is always the rapists’ fault for someone who gets raped. and don’t come at me with that “but she looked so sexy i couldn’t help myself.” bullshit. I’m gay. I like women. So your comment doesn’t work on me, bucko. Even though I like women, that doesn’t mean i would RAPE them because of what they were wearing.

Anyway, end of story. Ladies, wear what you fucking want.

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4/15/2021 08:27:57 am

god, preach. people act like men are the victims for being attracted to a woman's body. literally every girl and their half-cousin wears leggings. its not that big of a deal, simmer down. but most of the people in this comment section are probably homophobic misogynists who cant fathom the fact that people can be gay so this argument probably isnt gonna work on them. love u tho bee you keep going queen

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2/23/2021 12:55:37 pm

I really agree with you. As a man who respects women it makes me feel bad and uncomfortable when I see them at the gym and I look, and I try not to. It's as you said, we tend to be more physical and to be judged for it is very unfair, as lots of women will do if you bring it up, oh don't be a pig. I mean I appreciate attractive women, but your body is shouldn't be the highlight.

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3/30/2021 10:10:59 pm

So we need to cover up because it makes you feel bad and uncomfortable? Our bodies shouldn’t be a highlight? They are our bodies. Maybe you should just stay home if you are uncomfortable and feel bad. Your mom must be proud!

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calling yourself a respectful man and then saying something misogynistic doesnt make you respectful. you dont think women get attracted to men? who are you to assume that men are more physical than women? maybe women know how to be respectful and you're given a pass just because you're a guy. or maybe its years of sexism that has led to such a lack of control in men? stop assuming crap about women when you dont know what it feels like to be one.

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2/28/2021 08:19:43 am

Sexually active women tend to flaunt their shapes and assets more... not just by using leggings but most likely by using super short shorts..miniskirts ... and leggings...That's "Peacocking". ...to appear attractive

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I agree with just about everything except "men are visual". Women are no different in this regard.

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3/30/2021 10:04:03 pm

Rather than teaching our girls that they are a distraction to boys and should cover up, why don’t we start teaching our boys to be better humans? Let’s stop with the “men are visual “ excuse. Teach your boys to respect girls and women by staring with yourself. Do you put yourself down in front of them? Do you put other women down in front of them because of the way they are dressed? Kindness starts at home.

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